Saturday, June 20, 2009

I Refuse to Believe!!!!

I don't usually write about my emotions, thoughts or feelings on my blog but lately I have had some fairly in depth discussions with my friend Chris about relationships. We are both single and often discuss our dating situation. Being single at our age certainly brings up some interesting situations. Where do you meet other single people? Seriously? We have a mutual friend Dee who has met a super guy through her hiking club. Go figure!!!! I guess the search goes on but mostly I am pretty laid back and feel like "If it happens will happen". I have a pretty full life , a great job and a ton of hobbies that keep me pretty busy. I spend a good deal of time with my family. (thank you daughters and mom for being my best friends).............

I guess the point of this whole post is this. Chris said to me last night: Do you think we have already had "all" of our loves. It's funny that he mentioned that as I had thought about the same thing on my way back from the gym. (Friday night is gym night....and how is that for date night!) We often are thinking along the same line. I REFUSE TO BELIEVE THAT.............I do not think that all. I truly believe that he is out there somewhere same as I and that "it" will happen. I have to have hope and faith. In the meantime I will continue to live my life the best I know how. I will continue to grow in becoming a better person. I will be more loving, understanding, kind and patient. I will forever be the "Optimist".

1 comment:

janis said...

Please continue to refuse to believe. God has a plan and you must always have faith that He will help you to find happiness always in everything, including love.
Have you ever thought about Chris? Sometimes something is right in front of you without realizing it.